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An Appeal To My More-Or-Less-Adult Daughters

Dear Girls, I want you to think back. Waaaaay back. Back to a time when you lived, very cozily (albeit slightly contorted), in my belly… Even though I know you don’t really remember this particular time in our lives, I remember it vividly. (Maybe a little too vividly....

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In The End, Love Is All You Need

By Lisa Sugarman I want to talk about something that you’re probably not going to want to talk about. But life doesn’t always go the way we want, so I need you to be flexible. Because what I wanna talk about right now is death. Yeah, I know, not what you were...

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Sometimes Kids Get a Bad Rap Just Because They’re Kids

Kids do stupid sh*t. They just do. They’re notorious for it. Most of the time, though, they make bad decisions because their brains just aren’t mature enough to know better. I know, I’ve been that kid. And I’ve done plenty of stupid sh*t that my now-adult brain...

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Manspreading… It’s A Thing.

By Lisa Sugarman It’s not easy keeping track of what’s trending in the world. In fact, even keeping a shallow pulse on all the social phenomena out there could easily be a full-time job. But I try my best. Occasionally, though, stuff gets by me—stuff that’s maybe been...

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